Comments on: i’m in big trouble

By: Lisa

Lisa — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 18:50:38 +0000

Listen, Patty, tell your hubby to man up and get over it! How come men are allowed to constantly talk about their fantasy women and comment about how hot this one is and how hot that one is? We as women, put up with it every damn day. I say DOUBLE-FUCKING-STANDARD, and it’s bullshit! If they’re allowed to comment about other women, then we’re allowed to comment about other men!

By: jenny

jenny — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 01:35:49 +0000

what will be will be and you are a fabulous writer…..

By: patty punker

patty punker — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:34:07 +0000

AL: thank you. you are legendary.

Krisis: i pull from all over, too. but mostly from my ass. this is pretty sound advice, my friend.

MS: i’ve always a wanted a colonic! the video would be suitably humiliating.

By: Miss Spoken

Miss Spoken — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 21:24:28 +0000

Maybe he should guest post on your blog … give him the chance to dish a little, divulge his own imaginary girlfriends, throw you under the bus or something similarly cleansing.

Speaking of cleansing, maybe a colonic is in order. Say it with me … “Video Blog”

By: krisis

krisis — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:40:39 +0000

I’ve confronted this over and over on my blog over the years. I used to write about much more personal topics, and if one of my friends found the blog they would spend DAYS reading the archives, looking for mentions of themselves. And then I’d get emails about things I had written months prior, like, “Why didn’t you tell me you felt that way?”

As for my own relationship, I’ve found it useful with E to establish that the blog features a “blog reality edit.” Like many autobiographies, I might exaggerate slightly for effect, skip small bits of action, or combine the actions of two similar actors into one. She used to mind when she was implicated in those situations, but after we established a ground rule for how it worked (and for things she’d prefer me to not misquote) the sailing was smoother.

It sounds like with Mr. Punker you might want to chat about what level of blog-adultery he is comfortable with you committing

By: Africanlegend

Africanlegend — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 20:26:15 +0000

We love ya Pattypunker!

I think we have all been enjoying this blog and take it to be good old fashioned humor. TOP TO BOTTOM.

Hope it works out!

http://www.stuff-about.com

By: Linda

Linda — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 19:02:50 +0000

@Linda Okey dokey, you be me and i'll be you. Then I would have talent and you wouldn't. Ha Ha Ha!

By: Melme

Melme — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 18:05:26 +0000

Indeed it does!

By: patty punker

patty punker — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:58:52 +0000

i too have considered going really underground. so many of us don’t want to be found out. and have anxiety over the thought of it. but doesn’t if feel soooo good to not censor yourself!

By: Melme

Melme — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:55:21 +0000

Ouch! There have been a few posts that I’ve written that I know if certain people read them it would cause them pain, but luckily none of them even know about my blog. BUT I’m always afraid that certain people will find my blog and have been tempted time and time again to start a new and anonymous blog (a lot of people that I know in real life know about my blog) but I know I never will.